Social phobia is a unique and wonderful phenomenon in the animal world, do not see this phenomenon. If they are mutually exclusive, but mostly for the sake of survival of borders, territories, food and spouse, or like the habits of living alone. Animal such exclusion is out, but social fears appear to be on some people's exclusion, essentially moving within, is your own exclusive. Feeling in the eyes of others is not perfect, funny, funny, even from someone else's eyes to read out their inner shameful, despicable, morbid, and others to normal behavior, voice, face as their disgust and contempt. Stands in his opposite people unaware of real significance, social networking has also disappeared, he objectively be endlessly self-side. A man in his own exclusive almost is a psychological problem, this dilemma will inspire a strong conflict, with obvious neurosis of tension, fear, blush, sweating, irritability, or even run away. On their own do not like how to escape it? social fears cause heart pain, shame and self denial, or even your own hate will have experienced psychological experts surprised! sometimes seemed to feel only desire to die in order to pacify the own slightly on his anger.
Whenever I face social fears, my heart be filled with AWE to the culture. People with social phobia are inside a detached, perfect, authoritative I, demanding "must" to control their own, when social slightly imperfect, a strong self-denial, belittle, condemn. Who let the people inside to produce such a strong superego, nature is the animals do not have the culture. Culture stimulate people's self-esteem, idealized self, excessive pursuit of honor, resulting in a reverse, on their own produce a nervous of repression and denial. The shame of the Oriental culture is the self exclusion may be one of the main reasons why so many social fear Negroid, Japan's psychologists simply called dinosaurs were.
However, social fear there is a deeper meaning, smart, sensitive, some nervous people tend to fall into such a predicament, and such person happens to be creative. As the bees need only one Queen Bee, natural selection will allow those who might become queen bees had been excluded out of the game. Neurotic conflict is a shortcut to reach self-destruction, excellent people afflicted by this becomes banal and loss of competitiveness. So self how to interpret social fear is important, if you think your social fears is a disease, you get depressed, sick Act and fail. If you interpret as I don't love social networking, so you have time, knowledge, and inner peace. When you want to spend on social, philosophical, political, literary and scientific achievements of people, mostly don't like social group.
On social fear most is not treated against fear itself, but often is to accept the fear, and overcome the withdrawal of the social environment. I was in medical school Psychiatry trainee, in outpatient reception a 22-year-old girl. She is not afraid to love whenever someone to talk to her friends, she will panic and syncope. Band XI doctor has diagnosed her as social fears, because social fears start is specific to a particular person, then fear generalization to many people. Psychotherapy, started talking about her girl doctor's question is still very good, then the doctor pointed me to the girl said: "well, you now would take him for your boyfriend do desensitization. "Voice just landed, she suddenly very nervous, face wash of the red eyes buried down voice trembling, people seemed to be on its last legs.
The girl's mother to her describes an object that next week to her to be so, afraid she has fallen ill, so come to cure. Doctor girl said: "you do not hurry to talk to him about my friend, you go to meet with him to ascertain his name and age, came back to tell me. "Referral, the mother said that her performance is good, with the boy on a half an hour. Girls on the scene at the time said: "because I want to just go and ask his name, don't care that much. "In fact the doctor is doing the progressive desensitization therapy. Only the doctor girl to go see her boyfriend on the significance of this behavior changed in the past she meet her boyfriend to get married, and now see is to ask the doctor to know the information. Doctor blind through reconstructed, transfer her inner anxiety, make her social fears ease.
Frank admitted himself, confessed to socializing, allow yourself imperfect or even to allow himself to some other class, ask people too, is the fear of radical social. Lizixun
(Editors: Dawn 1m1m)
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