Psychologists generally believe that childhood is a healthy psychological's golden age, habits and behavior patterns are laying the groundwork in this period, if you ignore a child's mental health, the development of the child later will cause adverse effects. To this end, the expert advise, inner mental health association, foster children's mental health, you should note the following:
First, don't be overly concerned about their children. This easy to make child unduly self-centered, believes that everyone should respect for him, the results become conceited person.
Second, don't bribe kids. To let the children who know the relationship between rights and obligations, not their obligation cannot enjoy rights.
Third, not too close to the child. Should encourage children live together with their peers, learn, play, so you can learn to get along with people.
Don't force your child to do some things cannot be competent. The child's self-confidence mostly by doing successful and force them to do a force can and do, only against their self-confidence.
5. don't be too harsh, demanding the children even scolding. This will enable children to develop low self-esteem, timid, avoid unhealthy mentality, or rebellion, cruelty, lies runaway and other unusual behavior.
6. do not cheat and meaningless intimidation of the child. Frighten children lose their parents in the kid's authority.
7. don't criticize before small partners or laugh at children. This will cause a grudge and shy child psychology, damage a child's self-esteem.
8. don't be overly praise children. Children work achievements, a table can be too much praised approval will bring children from the adverse psychological flirts.
9. don't be child temperament. This will make the child sensitive suspicious, emotional instability, timid falter.
10. to help the child to the analysis of his environment. Help your child to resolve difficulties, not replace them overcome their difficulties. Teach children to analyze and solve problems.
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