How to get rid of jealousy psychology?

My daughter recently is always shown on classmates, friends, the phenomenon of jealousy. When the teacher others or find someone better than their own, often complained about the teacher, says students are not to know how to get rid of jealousy psychological education children?

— — Parents, Ms. Wang

Specialists:

One is to let the children recognize envy psychological harm. Jealous mentality is harmful to people, to others a negative psychological disorders of immoral. Jealous are often deliberately, to strain to dig people consumed, the consumption of a lot of talent and energy; envy the superiority of the others would be suffering heart, therefore, must be thoroughly cleaned, to establish correct self image, try to create good interpersonal communication.

Second, it is necessary to develop the child has an open heart. For the most part, the volume small, tolerate others is jealous of the major features. With this kind of psychological students to learn the selfless revolutionaries "heart" of the world, enhance their own goodness, truly, from the bottom of each other as friends. Use familiar negative example to warn their such as the romance of Zhou Yu and Zhuge Liang's story, etc.

Third, we should learn to mental shift. The students of interpersonal communication, when find themselves generate jealousy psychological, emotional and accompanied by an attacker, so go and think about it: If your achievements, other students on your dissatisfaction or hate, what you feel is important to make yourself aware of: achievements, this is a class, the school won the honor, we should be proud, and to their learning. By thinking, often receive unexpected results, will be very effective in helping you get rid of mental anguish and jealousy.

Fourth, we need to learn competition. Man City had a desire to succeed, there is a more than others. This kind of psychological if used properly, can become encourage their forward driving force. Therefore, students should actively suggest themselves: "you better than me, I'm better than you, I have to get through the efforts of the competition to fight!" competition this proactive methods to overcome by jealousy and negative psychological, let jealousy becomes a big power, motivate their catch up, arouse the courage to explore and surpass ourselves, to make a difference.

In short, through various methods of correction and free jealousy, helps students become the psychological health of people.

(Editors: Dawn 1m1m)